Let me paint a picture for you. You finally decide to sign up for that internet dating site at the behest of your friends and family. Or maybe you did it in spite of their misgivings. In any case you did it. You uploaded your best selfies. You cropped your friends out of that photo of you in your favorite outfit. You wrote a pithy about me section so your potential suitors know that you’re funny and smart. You answered all the questions and you clicked all the boxes. You click “save” and your profile is now live. It’s only a matter of time that someone who fits your criteria sees your profile and perhaps sends you a message.
Wrong.
It turns out men and women look at internet dating differently. Now one may say “Of course. He’s a man, she’s a woman…different socialization blah blah blah.” There’s no arguing that, but what if the differences caused one side to interact with an app or website one way while the other side interacted with it in a completely different way? And what if those differences made it harder for one side to find someone they want?
Singled Out: Women Ask the Questions 